What is important when looking for a same sex relationship counsellor?  Well, a same sex relationship counsellor will not discriminate over the context of your relationship and will not to seek to define your relationship in any way.  A same sex relationship counsellor is comfortable to work with clients from all different walks of life and different orientations.  It is in the creating of a safe, non-discriminatory environment that the restorative work is done. 

Whilst it is key to find a same sex relationship counsellor who is non-judgemental and doesn’t demonstrate any bias in their attitudes towards the nature of relationships, it is also important that they demonstrate the experience to be able to help you manage the complexities inherent in relationships, as in this way they will help you work through your relationship difficulties in a safe and supportive manner. 

People seek a same sex relationship counsellor for many reasons, it may be that the relationship is struggling to cope with external pressures such as financial stress or parenting responsibilities. It may be that there is a consistent conflict that seems insurmountable and you and your partner are at a loss as to how to move forward. It may be there are different values or life goals that seem incompatible, and then of course there are issues related to sex and intimacy.  

Initially seeing a same sex relationship counsellor may seem daunting or a bit scary but rest assured when feel comfortable with your counsellor, and there is a sense of ease and a flow with the sessions you know you are in the right place.  Same sex relationship counselling can help to get your relationship back on track. At the Melbourne Counselling Centre, we pride ourselves on our experience and commitment to delivering the best outcomes for our clients.