Halloween; A Time to Celebrate Our Shadow

Carl Jung explains our shadow as the unknown or ‘dark side ‘ of our personality,  as this is the part that holds the ugly parts of ourselves. Whatever it is that we deem evil, inferior or unacceptable in ourselves, we deny and this forms part of the shadow. In this blog post by Gretchen Schmelzer the shadow side is illuminated through the lens of Halloween and it makes for a fascinating and insightful read.
In it she unveils the mystery surrounding our shadow and encourages us to see it, befriend and find it’s own beauty. She tells us that Halloween is where we are allowed to play with our darker sides and in this we learn not to be so afraid of it. Our shadows sides are closely linked to shame, which is linked to silence and to secrecy. The more one denies the existence of their own shadow, the more they fuel negative beliefs which then creates a persistent cycle of self-doubt.
It is only when you can come face-to-face with your own selfishness, greed, envy, anger, rage, jealousy, lust or power – just to name a few – and accept them  that they lose their power. So, let the holiday of Halloween be the first step in making friends with your shadow side  –
Aisling Kinghan
Aisling Kinghan
2020-10-08
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Daniel Rodgers
Daniel Rodgers
2020-07-07
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Rick Saunders
Rick Saunders
2020-07-07
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Poki Samuels
Poki Samuels
2020-03-31
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Nathan Watson
Nathan Watson
2019-09-18
TRTP has completely changed the way I think about myself and the world around me. The changes have been extraordinary in such a short space of time. I suddenly find myself walking forward with a new set of positive core beliefs which others are noticing on a daily basis Anne supported me through the process with expertise, compassion and patience. TRTP really does offer you a new launch pad from which to embark on a new journey. I’m so grateful for having this opportunity to do this work with Anne
Daniela J
Daniela J
2019-06-14
I had been struggling with life and reliving my trauma for over 20 years, I tried everything and nothing worked. Finally I was referred to Anne, who took me through The Richards Trauma Process (TRTP) as that is the process that helped shift the past and get you to a better place.  Words cannot express how she turned my life completely around. For once, I am actually excited about life, I am actually thinking about my future. I feel like my life has been reset, I have a second chance and I am developing my life the way I want it to be, rather than the influences I was brought up with. Anne, I am indebted to you, thank you so much.
Housam Ahmad
Housam Ahmad
2019-04-04
I recently visited Anne Serry because I was told to do a anger management course. I’m am happy to say that Anne help me and I am grateful. Anne also learns about your life digging so deep into the family and finding the right solution to help you through your problems. Enough said call her if you are experiencing bad habits or bad issues, she will break them down and help you solve your own problems. Thank you very much Anne Serry! I will defiantly call you if I have any other problems God bless
Anna Anasa
Anna Anasa
2019-03-23
Completing The Richards Trauma Process (TRTP) with Anne has helped me profoundly. I feel free and less anxious around matters that used to overwhelm me, and my day-to-day experience is calmer and much less reactive. I can't thank Anne enough for this life-enhancing process!
Jess Taylor
Jess Taylor
2019-03-22
Anne took me through the step by step process of TRTP. It has completely resolved all my traumatic experiences that I haven’t been able to do by just talking to a professional . It’s a very powerful therapy that has changed my life . I can now be the happy positive person that I’m meant to be 😊😊